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SAVAGE LOVE: WORKING THE KINKS OUT

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Sadly, FOF, it sounds like one of your first interactions was with a LowCom, not a CrèmeDe. Continue reading

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SEX ADVICE FROM ENGLISH MAJORS: EASY WAYS TO MAKE THE HOLIDAYS SEXIER

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The opportunistic folks among us (or, as the French call us, “pervs”) know that Christmas is also a great time to raise your sex game. Continue reading

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SAVAGE LOVE: SENIOR KINKSTER

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But you’re going to need to take it slow, WHIP, and you’ll need to use your words. Continue reading

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SAVAGE LOVE: CRASH AND SPURNED

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I could be wrong, of course, and I’ve been wrong in the past—see “clitoris, location” and “male bisexuality, existence of”—and this is advice not binding arbitration blah blah blah. Continue reading

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SAVAGE LOVE: SHEATHED

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“No matter their size, lads around the world are brought up with dick insecurities.” Continue reading

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SAVAGE LOVE: QUICKIES

I am trying to understand some sexual fantasies I have. They involve having sex with a woman who has a penis. Sometimes I fantasize that my wife grew a penis. The fantasies started when we first tried pegging a few years ago. We recently had our first child and can no longer find the time for such kinky sex. These transsexual fantasies have caused a large strain in our relationship, and I don’t understand why I am having them or what I should do about them. I do not want to engage in a relationship with another person, I just want to know if it’s normal to have these fantasies.

-Confused But Hopeful Continue reading

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SAVAGE LOVE: A HELPING HANDJOB

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I don’t see why anyone should object to your brother getting a little professional assistance with his plight. Continue reading

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SAVAGE LOVE: THE COCK LOCK-UP COCK-UP TALK

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Male chastity devices, like all sex toys, are sold as “novelty items.” They’re not medical devices, and the FDA doesn’t regulate them. Continue reading

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SAVAGE LOVE: FOLSOM PRISM BLUES

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And freedom, as Dick Cheney famously said, means freedom for everyone—from pantsuit-wearing POS sellouts like Mary Cheney and Chris Barron to kinky straight people and hot gay boys in harnesses. Continue reading