Fantasies

Lust 

SAVAGE LOVE: QUICKIES

I am trying to understand some sexual fantasies I have. They involve having sex with a woman who has a penis. Sometimes I fantasize that my wife grew a penis. The fantasies started when we first tried pegging a few years ago. We recently had our first child and can no longer find the time for such kinky sex. These transsexual fantasies have caused a large strain in our relationship, and I don’t understand why I am having them or what I should do about them. I do not want to engage in a relationship with another person, I just want to know if it’s normal to have these fantasies.

-Confused But Hopeful Continue reading

Lust 

SAVAGE LOVE: PTS(EXY)D

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No more swapping pics with your kinky bro, bro, and no more hunting for evidence of your bro’s ill-advised online adventures. Continue reading

Think 

SAVAGE LOVE: EAR LABIANS

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“I know enough about sex—and enough about kink—to know that if something exists, someone out there somewhere is perving on it,” says Dan Savage … Hence, “Earlabia.” Continue reading